There are times
when you have no control over what you are doing and what you should be doing.
You get frustrated at small incidents that happen and wonder what the problem
with you is. There are times when you feel that you have been left all alone.
You get depressed and undermine yourself. What should one do when one fails to
please the insatiable world, when everything seems impossible?
This post was written by Amrita Nair.
One should
remember that every phase of life is temporary. There's nothing in this world
that cannot be solved. The only person who stops you from coming out of the
darkest phases is you yourself. Never let the negative thoughts overpower your
positive ones. Never compare yourself with anyone else. When you compare
yourself, your thoughts lead you to a way which will never give any positive
results. The only way to come out of your negative thoughts and emotions is to
feel good about yourself. You need to recognize the talent within you,
understand what you can do best and learn from the mistakes you made. Belief
and faith in oneself is the key to success. It's in the most difficult phase
when your patience and will power is put to test that you should emerge stronger,
not letting any obstacle to come your way. When the whole world is against you,
you need to show them that 'I can do this'.
But, anything worthwhile demands
time and trouble and if we are out for spectacular achievements, we must be
prepared to toil on quietly, patiently, firmly, progressing a little at a time
but progressing all along. Great ends and aims cannot be achieved in haste by hectic,
frantic and spasmodic efforts. People won't believe you, they might laugh and
taunt; some may just ignore your talks. But you need to trust yourself in
whatever you do and show the world that you are a winner. When life gives you
opportunities to prove yourself, don't be scared; stand up, work hard, give all
that you can and then there will be no one who can stop you from achieving
anything you want in life!!!
Life is beautiful,
just as roses. But it has challenges like thorns. We are born ready to chase
the thrills of life with steady eyes. The chase is sometimes fast, sometimes
slow. So, face the challenges and the problems and enjoy the bumpy roller-coaster
ride of life....!
You can contact the author at amritanair29 [at] gmail [dot] com or comment below.
Publishers Note: Guys, what's cooking? We put the blog up so that you could all write whatever you want. I know we're all a little stressed out for the Seminar, but eventually, we all are trying to publish a paper, and writing articles would be a good target practice. Hoping for new submissions from you all!
P.S. Our Blog name has been officially selected as the name of the eMagazine of our department.